Are you a light to yourself? Are you, your own role model? Or, are you the light of somebody else? Is your life spent on modeling others? When you are the light of somebody else, when you try to model others, you merely copy the image you have about the other. All images are abstractions. And, all abstractions are an escape from the fact. In the process of modeling others, you negate your authentic self.
Are you living an authentic life, or, are you living a lie?